Second response online dating
I always found it difficult to get people to open up through email when they were already being terse.
One thing you can try is finding something they are passionate about in their profile and asking them a general open-ended question about it.
A wink says either that he’s lazy, he’s illiterate, or, more likely, that he’s winking at 50 people at a time to see who responds to him. One set of rules applies to men, another applies to women.
Instead of spending half your day deleting profiles of men you’d never consider, you could be talking to one or two decent guys at once.
One of the best ways to have someone else be interested in you is to show interest in them (this is not a new idea…Dale Carnegie was proving this worked back in the 1930s).