Dating a sex addict
At present time she stated she's slept with over 40 men,and I took her viginity. Unfortunately there isn't really a way to tell, not as far as I know anyway. I wouldn't worry yourself about it, she'll do whatever she pleases regardless.
DG When a young girl is whoring it up it's usually not because she's addicted to sex, it's often a symptom of bigger problem like low sense of self esteem/self worth. If she's not protecting herself, she can't think too much of herself.
And that's what I'd im not sure what your problem might be ...i do know that the harder you chase something seams the harder it is to get it I know in my life from puberty till late teens i was an outcast ...a nerd ..and reserved ..as the result of being publicly humiliated by a girl that I had a crush on ..i was devastated and then depressed then pissed .decided that i did not care what people thought i was going to be out going and**** .took some time but it worked ..
I became popular .immediately went to the other extreme ..i became a player a sex addict.womanizer and between 18 and thirty i lost count of the women i had slept with then i got married but couldnt stop chasing women ...cheated and was cheated on and got divorce then through a lot of factors i was forced to take a look at my self ..i didnt like what i saw and decided I was going to again change before it killed me ..at 52 I think im pretty normal ..monogamous and happy .with the understanding of the problems a lot of people on both extremes have with sex It might be that he wants to help if she has a problem.
A common definition of alcoholism is that a person has a pathological relationship with this mood altering drug. It provides a quick mood change, works every time and the user loses control over their compulsion. Like alcoholics, sex addicts' lives rotate around the constant desire for their "drug" of choice.We've fostered and nurtured it with literature; sociologically, it's seens as a valid philosophy of life...people strive for it, idealize it, and some vainly try to what they view of an independent life. I knew a woman once, who was addicted to sex and possessed a strong libertarian mindset.With a mind, mapped to hold such views; what would be wrong with seeking out -say sex with 2 different men on the same day.. The outcomes were not very pretty and still, personally, leave me confused and often overly empathetic towards her...Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...Forums are great places to get opinions; or to tips and techniques.They are not a good place to get factual information.The Mayo Clinic uses compulsive sexual behavior for sexual addiction, and identifies characteristics of the sex addict as "an overwhelming need for sex and are so intensely preoccupied with this need that it interferes with your job and your relationships.